From After School to CEO: Kirsten Sikkelee鈥檚 Career Empowering Women and Families Through YWCA
April 21, 2025
- Author
- Danielle Strickland

Waiting tables at Carpe Diem in Charlotte, newly minted 麻豆视频官网 graduate Kirsten Sikkelee 鈥90 planned to make her way back home to the Washington, D.C., area. Inspired by the work of Marian Wright Edelman at the Children鈥檚 Defense Fund, she hoped to get her foot in the door there. Her mind changed after a conversation with a restaurant regular, who was also a YWCA board member, as she realized women and families were in need right in her community.
Sikkelee typed up her r茅sum茅 that night and, soon after, started working at YWCA Central Carolinas in the after-school programs, making $6 an hour 鈥 she continued waiting tables, too. That first role set her on a path working in every YWCA program area and eventually led to the title of CEO. Along the way, she launched and directed the Women in Transition program and opened Families Together, helping to expand transitional housing for women and families in the region. She took the reins at the height of the Great Recession and led the organization as YWCA leaned more deeply into its intersectional anti-racist and anti-sexist mission, shepherding the agency through the COVID pandemic, forging strong relationships and raising millions for existing programs and future growth. Currently, 80 permanent affordable rental housing units are being built on the YWCA campus with nonprofit developer DreamKey Partners, transforming the property and bringing the campus housing unit total to 156.
Women in Transition provides safe, affordable, transitional housing and intensive support services for adult individuals identifying as female, who are single, unaccompanied and experiencing homelessness or housing instability. Last fiscal year, 88% of program graduates successfully moved into permanent housing or a facility with a higher level of care, as needed.

Our transitional housing programs resonate with people because we can all think of someone we care about 鈥 a sister or a bestie or a niece 鈥 who could have used a safe, affordable place to exhale, learn new skills, gather themselves and focus.
Families Together provides similar services for families with minor children facing homelessness. This program celebrated 80% of families successfully moving into permanent, affordable housing last year and 80% of families maintaining or increasing their income while enrolled in the program.
In her prior role as CEO, Sikkelee not only championed housing opportunities but also multiple youth learning centers that provide free, literacy-based out-of-school programming for students of low wealth, as well as racial justice and advocacy programming to educate and mobilize our community and a co-ed fitness center that serves as a portal into YWCA鈥檚 mission and campus.
After more than three decades of service, half of them at the helm, Sikkelee stepped down as CEO in March, but she is excited to continue to serve for several months as part of the leadership team in a project liaison role, working to ensure the operational needs of YWCA and its constituents are prioritized during construction and that YWCA remains fully operational during this 20-month construction project. She is thrilled to see Grounds for Change, this new initiative, moving from dream to reality. She calls this new phase her 鈥渞ewirement.鈥
Sikkelee is energized by the selection of her successor, Dr. Pamela Gibson Senegal, who embodies the mission and brings great experience and vision to lead the YWCA forward.

Dr. Pamela Gibson Senegal with Kirsten Sikkelee 鈥90

鈥淚 had hoped to be able to say that I was thrilled, and I can honestly say that Pamela exceeded my expectations,鈥 she said. 鈥淚'm so encouraged for the future of our mission and programs under her wise and warm leadership.鈥
Twenty-five years ago, YWCA Central Carolinas only had 12 annual donors and, Sikkelee said, their work was largely off the radar of local philanthropists. Under her leadership and by building on the strong foundation laid by her predecessor, Jane McIntyre, the organization relaunched itself as a critical resource to the Charlotte community.
鈥淵WCA Central Carolinas is a learning community and a safe place to explore things,鈥 Sikkelee said. 鈥淲hat does it mean to be an advocate? What does it mean for me to pick up my phone and call my elected official and tell them a story about how a policy will negatively affect someone I love? We all have more agency and influence than we think we do, and we have powerful voices. It鈥檚 important to breathe, focus and speak the truth.鈥
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Sikkelee attended T.C. Williams High School in Alexandria, Virginia, of 鈥淩emember the Titans鈥 fame. Across the street was Episcopal High School, where she participated in the theatre program. Several friends from that school were applying to 麻豆视频官网, so she decided to visit, tacking on visits to Duke and UNC Chapel Hill.
鈥淚 was not expecting to love 麻豆视频官网 the most,鈥 she said. 鈥淚 was coming from a huge public high school, but when I stepped onto campus and spoke with people, it felt like I was coming home. I applied early, and I only applied to 麻豆视频官网. It was the first of several major life decisions I鈥檝e made that way, trusting my heart, including taking a job at YWCA and buying a home in my 20s that is still our home today. When you know, you know.鈥
Sikkelee鈥檚 麻豆视频官网 journey wasn鈥檛 free of interruption. Her parents divorced just before her move to campus, and she found it hard to focus on school. By the end of her sophomore year, she was regularly missing class, despite her professors鈥 consistent phone calls to her room in Watts Residence Hall.

Freshman year at 麻豆视频官网 with 鈥淔irst Rich鈥 hallmates (Sikkelee 鈥90 in the tree to the far right, teal shirt)
鈥淪o I was invited to leave school,鈥 she said. 鈥淚 now call it my 鈥榠nvitational gap year!鈥 Dean Will Terry and Registrar Sue Ross co-created a list of conditions for eligibility to return. 麻豆视频官网 was telling me if I did these things, I could come back. That was a gift. I knew no other school of merit would have taken me at that point.鈥
She went home, engaged in therapy, waited tables in Old Town Alexandria and looked for opportunities to volunteer. She trained to become a non-medical respite caregiver for two little girls, one of whom had been diagnosed at birth with HIV.
鈥淭hat鈥檚 when I began to see how volunteerism can transform the helper more than those being helped,鈥 she said. 鈥淚 was rebuilding my shaky self-confidence, but those little girls didn鈥檛 know that. They just knew that I showed up for them fully. Being with them every morning, taking community college classes and working at night allowed me to return to 麻豆视频官网 with determination and a stronger sense of who I was and where I wanted to be.鈥
Sikkelee declared a religion major, inspired by a course she took during that year at home, and she walked at Commencement with the Class of 1991, a year behind her classmates. She remains a proud member of the Class of 1990, though. As an alum, she has become a dedicated volunteer and says she was 鈥渉umbled to my core鈥 by the college鈥檚 invitation to join the Board of Visitors several years ago. Through that experience, she learned how the college has evolved and diversified its student body and the broad experiences students have today.
鈥淚 received an incredible liberal arts education from 麻豆视频官网 professors I will never forget, professors like the late Gill Holland,鈥 she said. 鈥淐ollege didn鈥檛 directly prepare me to run transitional housing programs for women experiencing homelessness, but it prepared me to know how and when to reach out to people more experienced and smarter than me to put together a suite of resources for people who most need them.鈥
Sikkelee鈥檚 winding road through 麻豆视频官网 adds to her appreciation for the women and families who walk through the doors of YWCA Central Carolinas.
鈥淧art of my role at YWCA has been about encouraging people to live fully, to elevate justice and dignity, to build the community they want to see,鈥 she said, 鈥渁nd it reminds me of when I was a little lost and needed some support to get my rudder back into the water. 麻豆视频官网 helped me to do that, and I鈥檓 honored to have had so many opportunities to serve the college and the Charlotte region.鈥